Time as we know it.

“Your greatest resource is your time.” – Brian Tracy

Time is the kind of factor of life where it does not wait or stops for anyone, it just goes on. Whatever you have to do, there is a specific window of time to do that task. The window may be huge or very little to finish the task. But it is up to you how you manage to finish the task and go on with another one. It is  up to you how you utilise it to your advantage because if you do not grab the opportunity you may be left behind. Time is like the Trains, they go on and the stations are the opportunities that a person has to get on the Train. If missed he is left on the station waiting for another Train to pass by. When a person takes Time for granted not only gets behind on his duties to perform but also has no time to save for leisure.

A person without time is always stressed out because he did not get his responsibilities in order and as he delays more, the more stressed and tensed he gets to complete the duty or else he keeps wondering of ways to fulfil it without getting into more and more complications of not doing the given task at hand on time. It creates a big pile of “What If”s which include – What he could have done in the time he was wasting and not being worried sick for the completion of that duty, What more could he have accomplished ,etc.

“Time flies. It’s up to you to be the navigator.” –Robert Orben

A person shall choose wisely as to how much time he shall take for a task because a task can be completed at any amount of time, if not counted down. A person shall have a deadline to finish the task otherwise he would get lazy and give up on the task and jump to another one to please his mind. The deadline forces the person to focus on his work and submit the due task. It puts the person on test of how much level of pressure he could take if there is a limited time on his hands to finish a specific job. It shows the skills of the person how he handles himself for the task that he has to finish on the ticking time bomb.

Time shows how a person could be committed to some thing or someone. If a person is not happy with the task given to him he would not give all his best and do it as soon as possible and do it to go by. If that person is passionate about doing that job he would give all his time and day to fulfil it and he would be proud to finish it. The committment to the task affects the time factor greatly.

Many a times a person could think Time goes slow when they have nothing to do and nothing important planned out and it makes them go on their planet of thoughts to reflect on their past or think of something out of the box or think of what could it have been if they had done something differently or just getting by, These people are thinkers. Many a times a person even thinks Time goes fast when they are spending it with their loved ones and enjoying their time basically doing what they love best, These people are those who act before thinking. One could tell the difference in type of people of how they utilise their time to devote it to the work handed to them to accomplish.

Everyone has a different way of dealing with their emotions which take their own amount of time to get over the situation they are going through. Some take weeks and some take years. Time acts like a best friend in that sense. It helps the person to get over the dark pain and suffering  and lead them to the light of Happiness, felicity, Joy, etc. Time gives us the space from the tragedy that we might have endured in the past. Time helps us heal from the wounds we have endured in the past. Time could be the best gift one could get.

“A man who dares to waste one hour of life has not discovered the value of life.” –Charles Darwin

The Happiest Man alive would be the person who has mastered the management of Time. He would know what to do on what time without being a control freak to do the job at the right time. But be free of worry of any kind of work as he has fulfilled all his duly task on Time without Delay. Any of us would like to be that person who gets the work done on time and get rid of all the worries to have the job done one way or the other before the time runs out and they have been left with no other chance but to give up and start over.

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The Pain that we endure.

It is a feeling that one has that indicates loss, hurt, effects of something horrible has happened. It is Pain that nudges that we have lost something dear and bothers us with what could and what would have happened if we had not experienced the loss. Pain could be mental or physical. Physical is more like an injury or external pain, but Mental is Psychological loss that may cause your judgement to mislead into wrong choices which ultimately makes your life destructive. Pain can be caused in a million ways but in every way it can have its own individual level of hurt. It may be caused by a little thing happening or a huge, but it can never be forgotten. It is always stored in the memory drive of the human being. A special folder named “Pain” that has storage of all the possible hurt and pain that one has experienced in their whole life. Some people like to keep the folder deep hidden in their hard drive. Some just blurt it all out. There are also people who have 2 folders one for show and other one password protected. Pain can be shown as many other feelings such as anger, depression, etc. It basically is the 5 levels of Grief that one overcomes in route of happiness.

Speaking of Happiness, Pain has a way of presenting the fact that It is part of  life. One must feel Pain to reach the goal of Happiness. Pain tells us no one is ever able to have a Perfect life without sorrow,pain and hurt. It makes our life adventurous in a way. It is the ultimate outcome of some of our risks and decisions we make through are course of life. But those risks and decisions only help us to have the right ones to overcome or dodge the ultimate pain and gain felicity. Pain and Joy are the yin and yang of ones life. One cannot survive without the other but they do challenge each other. Pain reflects are basic deeds of our life where it is inflicted when we make a wrong call towards a particular situation. Which proves the saying that goes as “We all are just Human”.

Even in Love, a person would not be able to find love without the help of Pain. With a lot of different factors such as Sacrifices, Adjustments, Arguments, etc. that contribute to sum up a map to search for the right person. All these different factors are cause of Pain but it is up to the person how much he is willing to take the pain to be with that person. Which means every Love has its own developing Pain Factory that one enjoys to have built to have the joyous ride with the special someone who they ultimately find. Pain is the best tool to find love. If you cannot bear it walk away, find the one more suited.

The Pain of Loss of a loved one is unbearable. whether that loved one passed away or chose to leave you out of their life. In both ways Pain exist in some level or the other. The loved one who has passed away can leave a big hole of Pain in one’s life which is filled by time but not perfectly because the person who has lost a dear one always has the deep pain of not being with that person and wonder how would it be life like if he were here and what would they talk , etc. thinking about all of this resurfaces the pain they suffered from the fresh wounds of their loss. The old hole of Pain dug up every time we ever think about him. But by time the hole that is dug up gets smaller and smaller and by the time we have our lives all figured out and lived it hurts only a little and only little pain is depicted. When a loved one chooses to put you out of their lives, It is initially Painful but the healing process is quicker when there is another loved one who helps to fill the hole with their loving memories instead of the pain. There are times when one thinks of what could have been with the person who chose to leave them, but he would know that it would not have been as good as the person who was there to pick up the broken pieces.

In conclusion I say, Pain comes and goes but it is up to the person feeling it to roll around it and wait for it to pass through or get out there and find help for the pain and run towards happiness and get rid of the pain. Pain is a part of life which lets you know your weaknesses, your pressure points, etc. without it how can a person know he is happy or not?