Things a girl wants from a guy

  1. Treat her right.
  2. Be honest with her.
  3. A genuine friendship/ relationship.
  4. A Gentlemen.
  5. A mutual Understanding.
  6. A well trusted bond.
  7. Good Company.
  8. No Awkward moments (the serious types).
  9. No complications.
  10. Helpful to one another, whatever it may be for.
  11. Straight Forward, No drama.
  12. Faithful.
  13. Forth Coming.
  14. Good Character.
  15. Suitable for sharing intimate secrets.
  16. Not a Gossip (not that guys are).
  17. Emotionally Stable.

A short Practical list of things that a guy should have. Any objections comment away. I am all ears!


A list of T.V series you must watch.

My favorites (Random Order)

  • Game of Thrones
  • Castle
  • Pretty Little Liars
  • 2 Broke girls
  • Marvel’s Agents of SHIELD
  • Supernatural
  • The O.C
  • New Girl
  • Awkward.
  • Rizzoli and Isles
  • Charmed
  • The Secret Circle
  • The Nine Lives of Chloe King
  • The Flash
  • The Vampire Diaries
  • Teen Wolf
  • Arrow
  • Ravenswood
  • Modern Family
  • Revenge
  • Once Upon a Time
  • Veronica Mars
  • Hannibal
  • How to get away with murder
  • Grey’s Anatomy
  • Scandal
  • Breaking Bad
  • Prison Break
  • Girls
  • Bones
  • Melissa and Joey
  • The Big bang theory
  • How I met your mother
  • White Collar
  • Suburgatory
  • Jane by Design
  • The Originals
  • Sherlock
  • Park and Recreation
  • Gilmore Girls
  • 30 Rock
  • Family guy
  • The Simpsons
  • Outsourced
  • Glee
  • Happy Endings
  • Mr. Bean
  • Mr. Sunshine
  • Parenthood
  • Scrubs
  • Pranked
  • Terra Nova
  • Two and a half men
  • Firefly
  • House of Lies
  • 90210
  • Community
  • Gossip Girl
  • Hart of Dixie
  • The Mentalist
  • Nikita
  • Psych
  • Rookie Blue
  • Necessary Roughness
  • Suits
  • Private Practice
  • Dexter
  • The Carrie Diaries

(comment your own favorite T.V series which I might have missed or am not aware of)

21 Things to do when you can’t sleep or have Insomnia

1. Read a Book in bed.

2. Eat, raid the kitchen.

3. Play a game on your phone in bed, console or computer.

4. Youtube, watch funny videos of kittens, dogs, etc.

5. Start Cleaning, People do that sometimes.

6. Listen to music.

7. Dance on the music you are listening to ultimately making you tired and sleepy.

8. Exercise, again will make you tired and sleepy.

9. Stare at the ceiling in bed, sometimes helps.

10. Go creative, Do something Art related.

11. Write on your blog, If you have one.

12. Chat with fellow Insomniacs, your friends.

13. Watch T.V or a T.V series on your computer/ Laptop.

14. Plan out your next day.

15. Find out what exactly is bothering because of which you can’t sleep or what is the solution for your problem of Insomnia.

16. Count sheep in your head in bed.

17. Curl up cozily in your bed you might just go to sleep.

18. Go to the Terrace or the Roof to count stars or admire them.

19. Go on a drive/ walk to clear your head.

20. Hit the Internet, Check what people are doing these days (stalk them), Log on to Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc.

21. Just go to sleep!

Murder of Every days Truth.

Have you ever thought of saying the truth and stopped to only say a lie and suffocate the truth to death. Did you ever come to know of a truth as someone killed it. Every time you lie instead of saying the truth you are killing the truth by stabbing it with a lie as a weapon. By saying little lies every day we are murdering the truth every day. Truth is the little darkest secrets that we keep from others as a hostage in our heads until we have to lie about them. It basically makes us mental criminals.

When we are caught in a lie we are guilty of killing the truth that holds our most treasured secrets. It is our secrets that makes us lie instead of saying the truth in the first place. People believe by being honest, it may get them into trouble. Therefore, they assume they are better off with a really good – truth repressing – lie, that way no one would really suspect that they had in fact lied. It would be like a perfect murder where the victim, i.e, the truth could not be found in the first place and there would be no way to connect the victim to the suspect, i.e, lies.

To conclude, It can be said, The lies only get you in trouble than good, hence you are better off saying the truth in the first place. Even if you lie, the truth has its own way of getting out. The people it concerns can learn to deal with it. The secret will only kill you inside, so let it out, whom ever it bothers can deal with it themselves. Be truthful if you are not a great fan of games in your life.

Save the victim and kill the suspect.

Forgive but never forget.

There are times in our lives that certain someone has wronged us and we find it in out hearts to forgive them, but we never forget what they did wrong to hurt us. Even if you know that you have forgiven that person you will never forget what they did that need to be forgiven.

It takes a great deal of effort to forgive alone. How can you forget something that someone does to you which needs forgiving. Forgiving something that someone did to you requires you to process of what has happened because of the mistake that person did and process the reasons for that person to do that specific thing which needs to be forgiven by you. They hurt you, they may obviously have some reason to do it, but you need to get over it and find in yourself the power to forgive. But, does that help you to forget what they have done to you, what consequences their mistake had on your life.

Forgetting something like this is never really possible. It is always at the back of your head that, that something that the person did has effected you in the specific way, you just need to learn to live with it. You need to cope with other people’s mistake that affect your life. In the end, that makes the life interesting. It is the mistakes of yours or the others which you need to forgive or get over that makes life more bumpy and grounding. That makes the essence of life, good or bad, rough or smooth,etc.

At the end of the day, you know why they did it for a good ground holding reason that makes you be forgiving. But that change in your life because of what they did makes you never forget what they did or why they did so on and so forth.

So I say, be forgiving because that person would have probably done it for a genuine reason unless of course they are some mean psycho paths.

Does long distance relationships really not work ?

Long Distance relationships are those where two people who are in a relationship with each other are in two separate places, for example, the girl is in west and the guy is in east. We all know what efforts are involved in a long distance relationship. It is a very tricky kind of relationship where it actually depends from person to person how things evolve in their life when they are apart from their significant other. It may work or not, it is all according to the couple as to what is their age, what is their compatibility, etc. which actually plays a huge role in the relationship in general. Long Distance relationship is actually the ultimate test on where the relationship of the couple stands.

In my opinion, Long term relationships do not work. In long distance relationships even though the couple loves one another ‘to death do us apart’ kind of way the distance plays a huge role in acting as big divider between them which ultimately makes the couple go their separate ways for good. It is that apart time from each other that makes them expose the side of them that would probably would not come out when they were with their significant other which ultimately leads them to become a whole new person,i.e, they evolve as an individual.

No matter how much they try to connect with each other over the internet, share what their day was like, etc. they both realize that they are in fact able to live their life without the other and that conversation over the internet after a while, may it be a month or few years, they realize that it is a huge burden and they rather have someone totally new in their life who knows the real evolved them with whom them have been spending their time with, the way they did with the person you are in a relationship or better.

No Long Distance relationship should be done deliberately, it should only happen under the necessary circumstances. If it happens with the agreement of both of them wanting to experience the long distance experience then that is actually an indication that the relationship was already doomed in the first place. When they willingly choose the long distance experience and want to try it out, it actually means they secretly want to break up with one another. If you think Long Distance Relationship work. Prove me wrong.