Accept that the old is gone, the past has passed, the leaves have already touched the ground. Accept it, Move on with your life. Start fresh. Opportunities are bleak but when they come grab them with all the soul strength you have and uncover the new and a determinant YOU.
Let go of things that can not be changed or don’t change yourself for someone who does not accept you for who you are. Be yourself no matter what. Every happenings in your life affect you and make sure they affect you in a positive way to be better. It is OK to care for yourself and be a little selfish. If you are happy, then you can make other people happy. Charity and the good begins with you.